Give Thanks

Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!

And what a great day to give thanks indeed. Let's review shall we?

• I am thankful to God for inviting me on this exciting adventure, in a place where I learn new things everyday.
• I am thankful for the challenges that navigating this new world/life/culture has brought me. Even though the challenging moments abound compared to what life was like pre-Benin, I am thankful that God has offered me an opportunity to be undeniably (and unavoidably) vulnerable, and to grow in many, many ways.
• I am thankful for a host family that makes me feel embraced and valued, and who are endlessly patient to match my seemingly endless learning curve. They encouraged me when I wrapped my first pagne (that wrap skirt I keep talking about), they join when I spring into the kitchen dancing, they ask me "have you meditated on the Word today?" In short, they remind me that I am not in this alone. And for crying out loud, my host mom understands my craving for a cold salad once in a while.
• I am thankful for my co-workers, who are willing to patiently work to understand where I'm coming from, even if I've "misplaced" my patience. They value the person that I am, and they are interesting in getting to know that person. They have shared their yams and porridge, helped me run errands (I don't know how I would have navigated the immigration office by myself), valued my input, and they don't give me special or preferential treatment (which gets old really fast if you're a white person in Africa, believe it or not). They even ate the mystery "cake" that I put in front of them without questioning (read on, and you shall see...)
• I am thankful for the work I get to do here, which combines the skills God has given me with an equal number of skills that I didn't know existed or that I actually had, but I guess that's a nice surprise! I also have to laugh because this is not my first job that has brought me inadvertently close to a lot of strangers' weddings (although that's not all that my job entails, it may or may not be my favorite part).
• I am thankful that God has provided a place to live which will also keep me in close contact with my host family--my apartment is above their house! I am looking forward to being more independent in my new living situation.
• I am thankful for you, because you have taken the time to read my blog, and many of my readers have also prayed and taken the time to send encouraging messages, which absolutely makes my day!
• I am also thankful for the cool breeze that is coming in the window right now, which makes me forget how hot it is and that the power is out. And for ceiling fans. And air conditioning. Let's be honest.

Can I just tell you about my week?? :D

Guys, it happened. I made pumpkin pie from scratch. My host family was baffled when I tried to pronounce the French word for "pumpkin" (in my defense, they still didn't know it when I wrote it out on paper). But when I googled a picture to show them, my host mom said "Ah, I know a market that sells that!" So on Sunday after church, she took me in her car, and I bought three little pumpkins.

My host family doesn't have an oven, but my co-worker Carole had invited me to come to her house on Monday night to use hers. So after work, I gathered my ingredients and we got to work.

I had never made a pumpkin pie before but the process was pretty straight-forward. I didn't expect to break such a sweat while peeling the pumpkins, but I'll blame that on the heat. It helped to have Carole, Vivienne, Carole's aunt Lily, and Carole's two children to lend a hand. To be quite honest I had no idea whether the pie was going to turn out or crash and burn, but it just felt really good to be making the effort. Without American measuring cups and only a sliver of baking experience that would be relevant for the task ahead, we prettymuch estimated all of the measurements, and I tried to say "That looks about right" with as much false confidence as I could.

Well a few hours after we started, we pulled out a couple of "about right"-looking pies from the oven, and I don't know about Carole, but I was dying with anticipation to taste it and see if it had worked, but we had to wait until the next day, when we would share it with the rest of the Wycliffe office.

Across from me is Carole's aunt Lily

DONE!!

Carole and I and the finished product :)

"Kate has brought a special cake to share with everyone," was the announcement made before the coffee break the next day. If I'm perfectly honest, I was so anxious to see if it had turned out right, I didn't even wait to see if anyone else had taken a bite before I tasted my piece. In hindsight, perhaps that was "gauche", but since I really didn't know if the recipe had worked, I'd say the "taking the first bite to check for poison" excuse was pretty valid in this situation, wouldn't you?

Anyway, they really liked it! Ugh, GUYS, I could have cried, I was so pleased! I smuggled a portion home for my host family to enjoy, too :)

They like it!! (Olivier, me, Paulin, and Yvon) 

The other exciting piece of news is that my new apartment is finished! I have been ready to move into a bigger and more independent space for a while. But I had a strong feeling that before I even slept there, I should first invite friends over to pray for the apartment, to commission it as a sanctuary for the time I am here and for its future tenants (because it will probably be used for future Wycliffe interns and visitors). So on Thursday of this week, a number of my co-workers took a field trip out to my finished apartment, where we prayed and prayed for God's blessings to rest on that place and for his Spirit to fill it up.

I felt very lucky to have such amazing co-workers, who went out of their way in the middle of the day to do something so special for me. :) Here is a photo of almost everyone that made it (Paulin and Oliver were taking the pictures)

Daniel, Papa Tebe, Carole, me (can you tell I tried to dress for Thanksgiving?), Mathieu, Gerard, and Lucas 

Carole and me

Paulin said, "Let's get a picture of the Wycliffe Benin Multimedia Department!"

That's all for November, friends. Thank you again for your prayers and support. Here are a few more prayer requests:

Please continue to pray for this organization, that God would continue to inspire every work we undertake, and that he would continue to guard us against any conflict and misunderstanding.

You can pray for me, because that God would continue to push me further, and keep me motivated and patient, especially with myself.

Please continue to pray for translation projects in progress around Benin.

Pray for safe travels for my host mother Martine, as she was visiting family in northern Benin and will be heading home this weekend, perhaps today.

Blessings to each of you this holiday season!

November News

Thank you so much for your continued prayers during the past months. God has heard and has been so faithful. Here's what's been going on since my last update!

I spent a lot of time in October working with a colleague to plan literacy videos which we will hopefully be shooting over the course of the next few months. These videos will be used in areas of Benin where it pertains to the language group in question: Saxwe (SAH-hweh) in the southwest, Idaasha (ee-DAH-tcha) in central Benin, and Fon in much of southern Benin (Cotonou is in this region). The Idaasha and Saxwe videos are geared towards people who already know how to read and write in French, but who have never learned to read and write in their native/regional language. The Fon video is for those who have never learned to read or write in any language. Shooting these videos will involve traveling to the region where each language is spoken to record a native speaker teaching the lessons. We would definitely appreciate prayers for a smooth production process, safe travels, and that God would use the finished products to empower his people and that he would touch their hearts in new ways as they learn to read the scripture for themselves. I will update when we know our specific travel dates.

In addition, we are also preparing to shoot interviews with a number of Wycliffe Benin personnel and partners about the work and impact of Wycliffe. This video will go on the Wycliffe Benin website, which recently underwent an update. We plan to begin shooting the interviews this week. Again, we would appreciate prayers for a smooth production process, and for God to use these videos to raise positive awareness for the work and impact of Wycliffe Benin.

Finally, we made an advertisement for renting out our multimedia services (e.g., filming weddings, recording radio ads, editing footage, etc.) We've already heard back from several people who would like us to film their weddings this year! In Benin, they have the equivalent of the bridal shower about a week before the wedding (that's also when the bride's father gets to decide whether he's going to let the man marry his daughter--no pressure or anything!), then most couples have both a civil marriage (at town hall) and a religious marriage (in their church). This past week, we got to film the bridal shower, the civil marriage, and the religious marriage for a couple. Congratulations Brice and Dorcas! Here are a few of the photos we took (all from the religious marriage):

The traditional choir

The "westernized" choir

The receiving line after the wedding (stretching all the way around the sanctuary!)

You don't know them, but why not send up a prayer for God to bless their marriage and bear fruit through their union?

And I almost forgot! *drum roll* Wycliffe Benin Multimedia services now has its own logo. It will go at the beginning of Wycliffe Benin's videos. We animated it so it goes *swoosh!*

What do you think? Pretty nifty, huh? Before you know it we'll be making cool jackets. B)

Wycliffe Benin is currently constructing a new headquarters, one that will have more space and be better suited for the work that the staff does to oversee the translation teams around Benin. The money that we make from filming events goes towards funding the construction of the headquarters. We can always use prayers for God to continue to oversee and provide for the material needs of that project!

Don't be deceived, dear readers, into thinking that every passing day I spend here is action-packed and productive. I'm not saying this to disappoint, I'm just saying that we also spend a fair amount of time in the media studio between projects, waiting for videos to finish and export, or waiting for interviewees to respond to our emails. There are days when I come home feeling like I've accomplished nothing important the entire day. Coming off of 4 years of college where I filled my schedule to the brim, and a few summers working as a camp counselor, spending so much time doing so little can be hard for me to stomach with a smile. (It's especially great when I choose to relax by reading rather than sleeping during the siesta, and my co-workers tell me I didn't relax. I love receiving feedback on my relaxation habits, as you can imagine.) Long story short, I can get seriously antsy when there is nothing to do.

But then I'm reminded that sometimes, just maybe, God has bigger things on his mind than video production, and I need to acknowledge that in the moments when I have "nothing to do", God still wants to use me. Instead of thinking of things I wish I could accomplish, what if I focused instead on the person before me, and how I can inject God's love into my interactions? For example, with the co-worker who pops into the studio to say hi, with the woman who stops by on her moto every day to sell lunch, with the woman who sweeps the floors in the office, with my host sisters at home.

"And whatever you do or say, do it as a representative of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through him through God the father."
Colossians 3:17

I invite you, my readers, to keep me accountable about this. Ask me about the recent opportunities I've had to live out Colossians 3:17 in my life. Or if this verse strikes a chord for your in your life right now, tell me about your experience! I always enjoy your comments and feedback. It's not often that I see any other non-Africans (let alone Americans) around in the office, and even then it's for relatively short periods. My co-workers are amazingly supportive, and I love spending time with them, but they are not always aware of my need to process things and "talk it out", which is something I need more often than not (and ideally in English, plz and thanks). If you ever doubted that your words make a difference, I can honestly say that they do. :) So thank you!

Not related, but I took this on a walk in my neighborhood :)

I hope to put up at least one more post before the end of November. In the meantime, if you have any question, prayer requests, or fun Thanksgiving recipe ideas (that don't involve ovens or microwaves) please feel free to leave them in the comments, or you can send me an email (kapitchford@gmail.com) or a FB message!

Yvon is Back!

Last week at the office, everyone was excited for Yvon's return from Accra, Ghana, where he had been away for a month-long English course. Welcome home, Yvon!

Upon his return, he specifically asked me to convey his thanks to all my readers who prayed over his travel and studies. He really appreciates your support! His studies went very well, he said, and he learned a lot. He also asks for your continued prayers as he pursues his TOEFL, a certificate of English proficiency that would allow him to study in any English speaking country. One of his biggest wishes is to study theology in an English-speaking country.

The studio

Me, Mariette, and Paulin (with the state of Michigan making a cameo appearance) working in the Wycliffe Benin studio in October. We just moved in all the media equipment from the old headquarters about a month ago!